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we always talk about “psychology facts” but never “psychology opinions” 😔
I have my final paper for my Psychology degree today and this really helped to get in some last-minute revision. Thank you Chad Chad! 🙏🏽
Calling people “females” or “males” is incredibly embarrassing behavior
After watching this and downloading TikTok I’ve become a licensed psychologist. Now I can keep the money I saved up for a psychology degree and buy a private jet.
Thank you Chad Chad. 👍🏻
“Be careful when you’re using this because it is DARK PSYCHOLOGY” I love that you can just turn a whole field of study into black magic by calling it ‘dark’. Watch out for my TikToks on dark geology guys, it’s just me chucking rocks at people.
As a psychology major, it drives me crazy how much pop-psych has poisoned most people’s concept of how the human mind works. It seems anyone can make up a new difference between men and women, or how to tell if your crush likes you, and people will spread it around like influenza. Actual psychology is so fascinating that I struggle to see why people need to make up things to talk about.
I love how the “dark psychology” bros are just an update to the thinking of “insert gifts, receive sex;” that we’re just robots that just need to be hacked correctly to reliable dispense The Sex.
i love that so many of these are “dark psychology” facts, like its an entirely separate branch of psychology they teach in universities. just imagine the possibilities of a work of dark academic fields… dark sociology… dark linguistics… dark law.. dark environmental science and sustainable technologies… business management and economics…
So I’m a real life therapist (licensed and everything) and also a very online younger millennial. The landscape of mental health and psychology discourse online is so interesting. Like, yes, anxiety is a lot more normalized now. Fantastic. People are more aware of neurodivergence. Great. But also not everyone you meet has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder and not everything is directly explainable by a psychology “fact”. Like the only thing that’s true about people is that nothing is universally true.
If a friend told me they travelled around the world in a private jet, I’d likely smile because that’d be a fun thing to talk about. I’d like to hear the cool stories of what they’ve seen on their travels. I didn’t know I was a exploitative parasite, but I guess those mad scientists over on TikTok understand me better than I do myself! :V
As a ‘female’, I can confirm that we will indeed fall in love with anyone who constantly speaks in sarcasm, because if overused, it never loses its humour and in no way appears like they think we are stupid 👍🏼
There’s something that *really* freaks me out about those “dark psychology” videos: Half of them look like an abuser’s handbook and I’ve had a friend that definitely did that cycle of validation before pulling away to me. And it pains me to admit that it worked until he went after my partner.
I love how they always say “this tactic is guaranteed to work!” no its not. most people you’re going to chase away with your creepy manipulative behavior. I heard a story recently where the person said their ex would do the “we need to talk” thing just like the creepy guy in the video and then refuse to give them any details and give them stress and anxiety all day until they could talk to them in person, and then it would even be anything important, not even a serious discussion. They said they told their ex they didn’t like this and asked them to stop and they agreed to. Then they continued to do it so they broke up with them. It’s manipulative behavior meant to stress someone out so that when you talk you’re way more likely to agree with whatever they ask because you’re so relieved its not some relationship defining discussion.
It’s honestly wild to me that despite the fact that mental health awareness among younger generations is way better than it once was but people with Cluster B personality disorders like NPD are still treated like some creepy monsters lurking in the shadows just waiting for the opportunity to manipulate you like bruh…they’re just people with a specific disorder.
That “I ain’t callin’ you a roofer” joke was genuinely hilarious perfect set up and delivery
just got my bachelor’s in psych (and plan to continue in the field) and every time someone uses ~psychology~ or ~psychology facts~ to explain something i subtract one second from my doomsday clock. psychology is such a broad field with lots of different perspectives on the “how” and “why” of behavior; try to state something that is seen as “correct” in one interpretation’s perspective to a person who is a member of a different interpretation’s school of thought and you will start an argument. put a humanistic psychologist and a behaviorist into the same room and watch them fight to the death.
also every time ppl use cluster b personality disorders as a synonym for “evil” i subtract TWO seconds. it’s ableism, pure and simple. ppl with personality disorders are not somehow a worse human or more likely to be an abuser. correlation and causation and all that. there’s still so much stigma surrounding the less “pretty” conditions (personality disorders, schizophrenia, etc), even in (and especially amongst) people *in the field,* which makes those who may have these conditions less likely to seek diagnosis+treatment.
this is kinda rambly but my point here is that i hate pop psychology and most of the time all it does is increase misinfo and stigmas.
As a psychologist, it’s always really validating and humbling when people disagree with my professional opinion because it doesn’t coincide with the PSYCHOLOGY FACTS they saw on TikTok once
It is so hilarious that they refer to “dark psychology” like some kind of forbidden magic when it’s just acting confusingly.
As a dark psychology wizard, I’m guffawing and tittering the day away watching this video. Thanks Chad Chad. 👍
When they refer to women as “females”,you know their advice is going to be toxic.
The “narcissist” one is infuriating and common. Pseudo-scientific psychology combined with the demonization of NPD just. melts people’s brains
The funniest thing about that one woman who was like “here’s how you spot a narcissist” is that if she actually bothered to research NPD even a little bit she’d find out it’s a traumagenic mental disorder. That people get via repetitive childhood trauma due to a certain dysfunctional/abusive parenting style and it’s often comorbid with CPTSD, just like BPD. And not something you can just “tell” somebody has or use in place of ways to describe somebody who’s egotistical, arrogant or an asshole.
That and it’s also hilarious that she’s implying all people with NPD are abusive or going to manipulate you. Way to stigmatize an already very demonized mental disorder lol.
I’m so glad content like this is trending. Chad Chad is a great example of being extremely funny while still shutting down harmful behavior, its extremely fun to watch and good to know this content is reaching so many people.
I like how they treat manipulation tactics like they’re some kind of “dark magic”. Really adds a lot of whimsy to the act of lying and manipulating people
as a psychology student, the more you study you realize that anyone claiming something is a fact is immediately a red flag because pretty much everything in psychology has multiple approaches, theories and conflicting studies attempting to explain things
Psychology Tip: To test if your friend is a narcissist, tell them you have a live squirrel inside your chest. Now *pay close attention* because their next reaction will tell you everything. If they have a hopeful look in their eye, it means they are a squirrel, and they think the squirrel in your chest might be their long lost sister. But if they have a hungry look in their eye, *they are a cannibal squirrel* and you need to flee as fast as you can